The other day I visited Artboy68’s blog where he has a goal of drawing 100 portraits in 20 weeks—what an admirable goal. I started to think about other goals I’ve heard about: WordPress’ Post a Day, reading a list of classics by the end of the year, working out 4 days a week. I admire people who set such goals and work hard to reach them.
These are what some call active or positive goals. I spent the last few days thinking about this and realize that when I set goals, they are passive or negative goals: starting today I will not drink coffee, I will not eat as many carbs, and I will not read fiction or watch movies while taking classes.
I haven’t gotten anywhere with these types of goals. I have never been one to set positive goals because I fold…always. I have always had a hard time finishing things. I have been wondering why I have not turned the stubbornness it takes to accomplish the “not” goals toward accomplishing positive goals.
I guess just realizing that I do set negative goals is the first step. I think I will try setting some small, short-term positive goals and see what happens.
Well, I just looked at the last sentence—I think I will try…
Changing lifelong habits doesn’t happen overnight.